Simple Lessons from Cats

Humans often believe they are above animals because they have reason, morals, and rules. Cats look different: they seem calm, independent, and without interest in changing the world. Philosopher John Gray suggests that cats actually show a kind of wisdom that humans can learn from.

Cats do not need written rules or moral systems. Their instincts guide them. A mother cat protects her kittens because it is natural, not because she wants praise. Their courage and care come from survival needs, not from social approval.

One story tells of a philosopher who tried to make his cat vegetarian. The cat ate vegetables at home but continued to hunt mice and birds outside. This shows that cats stay true to their nature, even when humans try to change them.

Humans often feel restless and search for meaning through religion, philosophy, or moral codes. Cats live differently. They accept life as it is. They do not worry about being good or bad, and they do not care what other cats or people think.

Cats are happy because they live simply. They eat when hungry, sleep when tired, and play when curious. They do not create long stories about suffering or worry about the future. Humans, however, often get stuck in fragile stories that bring stress and sadness.

The relationship between cats and humans is also special. Thousands of years ago, cats lived near farms because they helped control rodents. Even today, they enjoy human company but remain independent. If food is given, they take it; if not, they hunt again.

Cats do not see themselves as property. They stay with humans because they want to, not because they must. This shows that cats can form bonds without losing freedom, something humans often struggle with because they depend on social approval.

Gray points out some lessons from cats. Do not waste time trying to make people rational, because emotions usually lead them. Do not let suffering become the center of your life. And do not chase happiness directly—focus on what interests you, and happiness will come naturally.

These lessons are not about becoming cats but about living more simply. Cats do not need philosophy or religion to feel content. They remind us that peace can come from accepting life and letting go of heavy moral burdens.

Cats show that happiness does not always come from complex searches for meaning. By living with acceptance and less worry, humans can find a calmness similar to what cats enjoy. Their independence and natural way of living offer quiet wisdom for us to notice.

Inspired by:

Einzelgänger. “What Cats Teach Us About Happiness | A Cat’s Philosophy.” YouTube video, 13:07. Posted September 28, 2022. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4T_fwF-Torc&list=WL&index=20&t=54s&pp=gAQBiAQB

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