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The People Who Drain You

        

It’s good to have healthy relationships, but some people can be bad for you. They can make you feel tired and stop you from being happy. It’s smart to know who these people are. Here are 10 kinds of people you might want to stop spending time with.
1. The Constant Critic
    This person always finds something wrong with you. They point out your mistakes and make you feel insecure. They might say they are helping, but they just want to make you feel bad.
2. The Person Who Only Calls When They Need Something
    This person only talks to you when they need a favor or some help. Once you help them, they disappear. This makes you feel used because they don’t care about you.
3. The Person Who Belittles You
    This person makes you feel small. They put down your ideas and what you have done. They might tell a joke that makes you look bad. They do this because they want to feel better than you.
4. The Person Who Always Lies
    It is hard to trust someone who never tells the truth. Their lies, big or small, make you feel worried. You can never be sure if what they say is real.
5. The Person Who Is Jealous of Your Success
    This person is not happy when you do well. They might say your success was just luck. They don’t celebrate with you because your success makes them feel bad about themselves.
6. The Person Who Doesn't Respect Your Boundaries
    This person ignores your feelings. They don't listen when you say no. They might ask for too much or get into your personal space. This makes you feel guilty for wanting to be alone.
7. The Person Who Just Takes
    This person only cares about what they can get from you. They are not your friend; they are using you. They will take your kindness, time, and energy without ever giving anything back.
8. The Person Who Doesn't Celebrate Your Success
    When you achieve something, this person doesn't show any happiness. They might act like it's not a big deal. Their cold reaction can make you feel like your hard work means nothing to them.
9. The Person Who Embarrasses You
    This person loves to make you feel uncomfortable, especially in front of other people. They might tell a secret about you or make a rude joke. They say it was "just a joke," but it makes you feel bad and nervous.
10. The Person Who Drains You Emotionally
    This person is like a black hole for your energy. They always have problems and talk only about themselves. After you talk to them, you feel tired and empty. They want you to fix their problems, but they don't care about yours.
Your Happiness Is Most Important
    It’s okay to step away from these people. You don't have to keep them in your life. Your happiness and peace are very important. It’s better to be with people who make you feel good and support you.
 
Citation:
SoulSync. (2025, 18 Agustus). People who aren’t worth your time! 10 types of people you shouldn’t waste it on [Video]. YouTube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ELqRX_Yf-J0
 

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